Mostly, we spend our time "wishing" that someone, anyone would notice and then give us a compliment. You know those little words of encouragement that we crave.
Waiting and wishing and hoping that someone will notice you and give you a compliment, causes your self-esteem and self-worth to plummet.
Essentially, you're relying on others to define your worth and make you feel special and that's a losing battle.
The time has come for you to rely on you for daily compliments.
Yup, you are going to give yourself compliments
each and every day!
When you finish a task including washing the kitchen floor, take a second to tell yourself "Great Job!". After you get dressed, look in the mirror and say "I'm rocking this outfit!".
Daily compliments have a trickle effect on your confidence, self-worth and self-esteem. And before you know it all those trickles add up and you have built yourself a fantastic river of confidence.
Once you have a beautiful, flowing river of self-worth, it becomes next to impossible for anyone to divert your course.
Self-Worth - Self-Esteem - Confidence can be easily built when you add compliments to your daily life.
Stop looking to others to build you up because it won't happen.
Start your own "I Will Give Myself a Daily Compliment" practice.
Oh, please take your compliment and then pass a compliment on to someone else.
About Susan Ball: Susan inspires her clients to live the life of their dreams with passion, joy, and love. Susan is an experienced international Life Coach helping people discover and live their ideal life through NLP, Mindfulness, and G.R.A.C.E.
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