Counting My Blessings & Creating Memories

About 5 years ago, I decided that Christmas was way too commercial and that I really didn't want to add to the massive pile of stuff under the tree.  I did some serious soul searching and reminiscing about Christmases past.  I wanted to find the feeling that was missing. What made Christmas special?

It wasn't the gifts.  It was the memories.  The laughter.  The tears.  The arguing. The singing.  The crafting and cooking.  The hugs and the smiles.

I can barely remember any gifts I've received and when I asked my grown children they were hard pressed to remember as well.

But what we did remember was moments.  Some good and some bad.  But definitely moments.

My decision was final.  I would create memories and fully enjoy moments with my family, friends, and people.

On November 14th, my youngest daughter celebrated her 30th birthday and to honour my commitment to memories, we all went to Cuba for a fun-filled week of sun, sand, and surf. Oh, a few cervesas and mojitos as well!

Me and my beautiful daughter, Ashley Maria

For all that she and I went through at the hands of my abuser, this represents how precious happy memories and blissful moments are.  She will forever remember our time in Cuba and for that I am truly blessed.

As the holiday approaches, think about small changes you can make that will let you gift memories that your loved ones will truly cherish.

6-Benefits of Memories over Material Gifts:

1. Memories can be created for any budget.  Free to no limits.  It's your choice but in the end, they are all priceless.
2. Memories won't break or get stuffed in closet or be re-gifted.
3. Memories will be spoken about for years to come.
4. They are truly personal and representative of a wonderful moment in a special relationship.
5. They are unique and one-of-a-kind.  And I love that!
6. They are Your Blessings to be Counted!

Take one material gift off your list and replace it with a special moment you can create.  You will have created a lifetime of memories.  It's a change worth making.  It's healing and empowering and inspirational.  You will begin to realize how blessed you really are.

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